Since this thread has had a TON of great info thanks to Geoff I wanted to add one more tid bit. I was at Suncoast yesterday and we did some experimenting. Their billet 10R80 flexplate (that they usually market for Coyotes) is a direct fit for our 3.5’s!!!! Also, the Coyote ARP flexplate bolts are a direct fit as well! Drove mine 200 miles on the new set up last night.
Not trying to sound like a corn dog but if you guys need transmission stuff I really haven’t ever worked with a company that I like better than Suncoast!