Hey Ming is here! That avatar is a bit out of date though buddy... there's some serious gray in that beard these days
Seriously though, thanks for posting. That kind of "sanity check" is exactly what I was looking for. And in my opinion few of us are more equipped to offer it than you.
Stick around will ya? This group is small, but passionate (as you can tell). Good folks here, eager to learn and discuss. IMHO you have something to offer us, with all your road course experience; we share lots of the same physics and forces, and techniques needed to work with and counter them.
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Brian, to answer your question: yes, I am running without the sway. With it installed, I hit the hills yesterday at lunch, and drove a 10 mile stretch of highway. I then pulled it and hit those same hills and highway stretch before heading home. The bottom line? I'm putting the bar back on today.
I don't have near the experience many of you have, nor do I have the education needed to talk intelligently. So bear with me as I try and explain.
On road I felt the tendency to overstear. I can REALLY see where lifting the nose and adding those Deaver springs like B has would make a huge difference, with no bar up front. That rear felt to me to be far more lively once I removed the bar than it was with the bar, which was surprising to me. I hadn't heard that mentioned before.
I made a few "emergency" lane changes at 60, 65 and 75mph. At 65 and above, that nose REALLY dives in the opposite direction of the turn. It didn't feel "unsafe" but if I was just cruising, not 100% focused on staying safe, I think the movement would surprised me, to be honest. And of course when you go to correct in your new lane, the thing dives to the opposite corner and now you've got a back and fourth battle you need to fight. Again, I wouldn't exactly call it "unsafe", but I would call it a handful to stay safe, in an emergency situation.
Around town, there's not much of a difference. Yeah the dive in the opposite direction of the turn is there; I think someone earlier described it as "squishy". That's really a perfect word for it... the response seems just as quick as with the bar, but with the added squishy sensation. Unsafe? Not at all. Again, IMHO anything under 55 or maybe 60, and other than being different feeling from stock, you're going to react just as normal and just as safe as with the bar.
My only "safety" concern is on the freeway. I know myself, and I tend to multitask when driving (yeah yeah I don't want to hear it. its a fact of life). I don't feel comfortable being slightly distracted, and needing to make an emergency maneuver without the bar on the freeway at my normal speeds. The truck will do what you need it to do, I just don't trust myself to be on my A+ game 100% of the time, to control the truck doing what I ask it to do. Does that make sense?
Now... offroad... WOW! What a difference. The truck came alive. No exaggeration. I could feel everything going on, and see with my minds eye what each corner was doing. In that environment, IMHO, disconnecting the sway enhances the experience dramatically. I really really liked it, and I would have zero concerns running slow or fast and hard without the bar. Again, the truck is going to do what you're asking it to do, no question in my mind. But unlike on road freeway crusing, offroad at high speeds I'm 100% focused, ready to control and react to the thing.
(Experts please feel free to correct/critique the following; again I'm just not experienced/educated enough to speak intelligently... I'm just speaking based on 'feel')
If I was forced to give a comparison for those who want to get a sense of what its like without the bar, I would say "Air down your tires to around 25psi and go play". The effect, to me, was very similar to airing down with the bar as it was to full air pressure without the bar. If you want to get 85-90% of the feel of no sway without actually removing it, to help you make up your own mind next time you go out, air down.
So again, bottom line for me is this: I'm going to reinstall the bar today, and keep my eye out for an aftermarket disconnect to come along. In the mean time, I'm going to research onboard air compressors, and just air down when I go off road. The off road experience I described above, for me, was close enough between the two to not justify running without the bar full time (or to be crawling around under the truck, fiddling with 7 nuts, a couple of ball joints and a rock shield twice per trip).
Hope that helps.