I feel bad that you had to tear it all down to surface the deck, that should have been done without question from the machine shop. Well at least you are learning a bunch and had the opportunity to add all new rings while apart.
Did the grade #2 piston weigh in a little closer to the other 7?
No, the grade 2 didn't weigh closer, but I didn't expect it to. By default it should have been heavier than the grade 1 as it's larger in tolerance. I have a feeling that the extra weight came from the rod, as I said, it looked quite a bit different than the original ones, but being that I never weighed rods, pins, and pistons separately, I can't definitively say.