Ford published detailed ordering info to dealers just last week. My favorite dealer called me yesterday to come in to make my deposit and configure my order which I did. It was first come, first served from their over-subscribed list -- with a $1,000 deposit. Very happy I was able to get there. There are three Ford dealers in my market and they each have different stories regarding when orders can be placed. Some dealers still claim they have no ordering info. That might reflect their priority with Ford. Just a wild guess.
But was that order submitted to ford and do you have a DORA, if not then what you did is not really much different than configuring it on your computer at home and tucking $1000 in between your couch cushions. I think your favorite dealer was selling you.