Here's a little something I think will help you out...
I was in the EXACT same situation as you are. Excpet the new '14 silverado. I have always LOVED chevy's and HATED fords...I never wanted to own a ford in my life. I always thought they looked awesome, but ive always thought they were built crappy. Well, i was leaning heavily towards getting a silverado, when..multiple things went thru my head.
I knew I didnt want to lift whatever truck i got because i just got rid of a 2007 lifted jeep wrangler on 37's and i hated how it drove and they need alot of maintenence...i was "ok" with the idea of owning and driving a stock silverado but i thought id get bored...and the 6.2l wasnt released yet and i knew i wanted HP
All of a sudden...this is when the raptor popped into my mind..35's from factory...beefy amazing handling suspension...beefy fenders...looks badass...has 6.2 from factory..handles like a stock cadillac meaning not sloppy like lifted rig on 35's...
i was talking to my friends about my dilemma and one of them said "the silverado is plain and boring, its an old mans truck" "the raptor screams young and its badass"
I ended up justifying buying a ford because..."its a RAPTOR, NOT a ford" lol thats how i looked at it. I chuckled at myself when i drove straight to the dealer on my next day off and had them doing trade in value on my car and finding me the fully loaded raptor of my dreams because i never wanted to own a ford. Found one in seattle that they got the perfect deal on for me...and I had it the next week...I couldnt be happier with my truck. it is so badass and turns heads and i want to drive it every where. i love it. the 38gal fill up sucks! but shes worth every penny. Havent looked back once.
Hope this helps?
Sean