What does GM use for the hubs? I thought the auto-4x4 feature was a clutch in the transfer case.
It's kind of both. On vehicles equipped with auto-4wd.
In 2wd, it's disengaged at the diff and with the clutch in the tcase.
in 4wd auto, it's connected at the diff, and disconnected with the clutch at the Tcase until 4wd is called for my the traction control
in 4wd they're both engaged.
With no synchronizer of any kind, not matter what, you're going to wear the teeth every time it engages/disengages at least a little bit. Multiple IWE failures is what led my dad to switch from Ford to GM for trucks.
I have just under 21K on my truck and so far the IWEs work as intended. But, more than half that is cross-country highway miles so for the miles, my truck as few starts/stops of having to build vacuum to disengage the IWEs.
How much air do you have to move to pull enough vacuum to disengage the IWEs? Could you just pull vacuum from the plenum with some check valves and run another solenoid on a switch(downstream of the one that is part of the system already to valve that off on command) so that even under remote start it would pull vacuum on the IWEs? That way you could override the computer control with another system, then flip that switch back the other way and the truck would have full normal control.