First thing, call SVT friday morning. (800) 367-3788 press 1. Ask to verify the order that they have in their system. They may not be able to give you specifics on packages or accessories but they can verify the type cab and color. They will ask for your order number and your dealer number. Then call them every friday to check the status of your order providing Order# and Dealer#.
Next, be prepared to wait. Depending on how many other Raptor orders are ahead of you and your dealers allocation will determine your wait. I was priority 10 with no other orders ahead of me and it took 9 weeks just to get scheduled. Looks to be 15-16 weeks order to delivery for me. (Your time may vary).
Everyone knows that it can be frustrating to wait for your order to get pulled, but dont get upset with the SVT guys, they dont have any control over how the orders are picked. There are a few good guys there like Junior and Steve that will take the time to explain whats going on with your order.
Good luck on the waiting game.