I’m not sure I would classify a lot those mods as haphazard. Or do you just not prefer aftermarket items in general?People buy trucks then dump 15 grand into haphazardly engineered after market parts, stereo equipment, tires, wheels, lights, exhausts, you name it. It sounds like you are just struggling with the principal of paying over sticker. Again. If it’s worth it to you, go for it.
I know someone that bought a 50K truck, dropped 15 grand into mods only to sell it for 35K a couple years later.