First off, you haven't even hit the surface of this forum. I think there are guys on here who roll out of bed and this is the first thing they check. Your wife will learn to live with it. Second, I can't speak for everyone, but when I ordered my Raptor I received an order sheet that had the Raptor priced out with dealer and order numbers on the sheet. I would email your dealer and get this info and then politely ask Blood to look up your order for you, and then you will know the exact status of your Raptor. Good Luck.