Dude I was in the same boat but I only gave it about a month before disputing with my cc. I needed the compression rate of option 3 for when I go overlanding, but I was getting 3.50” of lift with 450 pounds in the bed. It’s only supposed to life 3.00” with zero load! They kept telling me to forget about compression rates and just set the height I want. Their customer service couldn’t grasp the concept that I wasn’t going to set it up on option 1 to get the rise advertised from option 3, because then when I load it up with 800 pounds I’ll just sag like crazy.
If you go Deaver’s instead, you will get the exact ride height and compression rates you want with all their options. Just have to be clear with your vendor about what you’re looking to accomplish.