Oh boy, disected replies... I love these!
The fact that you can't see it makes the point.
I don't see it. I must be stupid. Please explain.
No. We (moderators) are here to guide, not dictate. Content is king, and we try very hard not to alter it or remove it once posted.
Yet, your first knee-jerk reaction is to CLOSE it completely? Talk about IRONY.
I can only imagine... I go back and clean up, and someone (probably you before we'd had this conversation) would have been screaming bias and unfairness and probably freedom of speech garbage from the top of your lungs.
Find one post where I scream "unfairness" or bias... I was actually slammed many times "over there" for doing the very thing you're unwilling to do, in order to keep a topic ON TRACK. That's what moderators are for... this isn't my first rodeo either, my friend.
Nope. This isn't my first rodeo. Its better to hope for and expect that we can behave like adults. And if we can't, especially in a situation like the Shock Shootout would have created, its best to simply cut losses and move on.
It's the internet... how long have you been doing this? I thought people had "tough skin"??
You assume incorrectly. And if you care to push that false assumption, you'll have to call me a liar to do it. You are simply wrong.
Well, to simply shutdown a thread in which MANY hours were invested seems really silly... if you actually cared about the issue at hand and wanted to see it's success, you would simply remove the off-topic posts, or move them to a "new" thread where the bickering could continue... Makes way more sense than just raising the white flag because of a little back and forth exchanges.
Who's disagreeing with me, and about what? Specific examples, please. In Justvettn's case, we're not disagreeing, he's incorrect. That's very different than what you're implying.
I'm talking about any topic on here, in general... you always have a super aggresive "holier than thou" reply, in which the intention seems to be making the other person look stupid. Justvettn made a point, based on the information he had (information from YOUR thread, that you apparently didn't update), and you jumped all over him saying he had no idea what he was talking about.
So the person who's withholding information and updates, gets mad at the people he's supposed to be providing the information to... but never did. You dont' see the problem there?
Funny, I would define my request, "Pardon me, but please do not speak on a subject you know nothing about." as direct, but not aggressive, condescending, demeaning or bullying. And if you're referring to my second reply AFTER he continued to defend his incorrect position, again I would say being blunt and direct does not translate to the labels you'd assign me.
Maybe you just don't see how you come across to people on the receiving end of your EXTREMELY passive-aggresive replies. It's called passive-aggresive for a reason, and YOU define that label.
Sorry we don't agree on things BigJ... I've tried to be nice, cordial, and professional... did my best to introduce myself to you in person, and have always done what I can to maintain a courteous relationship. You've always had a chip on your shoulder towards me (which I'm sure you'll deny) or at least that's how I've "felt" whenever interacting with you.
And although I don't even know Justvettn, when I saw your replies to him, it just really irritated me, and I wanted to call out the BS as I saw it. He made valid points, based on the information he had. Not sure what else you expected.
I'm sure you have your reasons and "explainations" for everything and the ways you responded, but I suppose we'll just have to agree to disagree. Maybe we wont' be "BFF's" or have great adventures together... But I'll gladly debate you on topics that I find you're being unreasonable on, and maintain a professional courtesy while doing it (as you have always done in return).