With short trips, traffic, lots of idling or the other end of the spectrum - caning the living daylights out of it off road, yeah frequent oil changes are cheap insurance, but even if you’re mixing in a little highway driving, it may be worth an oil analysis to gauge where you are. I was uneasy ( still am) about 10k mile intervals and I just can’t convince myself to push past about 7500 miles under ideal conditions.
Did you measure the new chain vs. stock? if you’ve got a bike you probably know a bit about chains, and how they wear, stretch, seize links, etc. I remember buying a Tsubaki chain for my bike because it had a huge tensile strength. I got 1.5 riding seasons and about 22 or so thousand miles before a couple links seized. That was hugely disappointing, but as strong as the drive chains are, the double roller timing chains are even stronger. They do wear out, but I’d be more inclined to believe the chain was defective on the CR-V. I do suppose that explanation is not impossible but it wouldn’t be my first suspect.