I think if it were me, I would ask for ( that’s being polite, there wouldn’t really be a choice ) a conference call with your dealer people and whomever from corp they need to engage to drive an expedited resolution. Legally, if you’ve put money down and delivery has been extended beyond some reasonable time frame without any tangible progress, then the dealer has - again at some point - failed to deliver on the promise. It varies by jurisdiction and this is something that’s last resort stuff because you burn your amicable relationship, if any. But, if you put a deposit down, were told it would be here by *** - by Ford or the dealer and it turns out to not end up here, someone owes you a vehicle. Now someone owes you a reasonable - good faith estimate when your vehicle will arrive. it is not anywhere outside the galaxy of reasonable to expect this.
I realize, this is a really low chance type of problem and would only occur probably less than 1% of the time, but for you, it’s occurred 100% of the time! I’d be understanding, certainly, it’s not the sales guy’s fault, I’d be determined to come to an understanding and I have in my narrow, military mind what the acceptable concessions on their part are for the extended period of time without your vehicle. When the minimal number of those concessions were met I’d consider the offer. If you get concessions verbally, get them in writing. Whether it’s a diversion of some other similarly provisioned unit (dealer retail -- they can wait for another), and expedited order to delivery with a firm date, regular progress reports, whatever.
Make your decision thoughtfully, not in anger, however you approach it. I’m sure the dealer wants to sell a vehicle, so they should be willing to help.