No problem dude. I'd just hate to see Ford get you squared away, you then spend a bunch of money on something all only to find yourself broken again. I think its time to get an expert involved... who knows, they might just say that bar is the answer! On the other hand, they might not and you might save yourself lots of time, money and frustration.
Please do keep us posted on how this goes. There's good stuff to learn here, and anything you can share as you learn it might save someone else someday.