Well, after several weeks of waiting I finally got some of my order in (bolded).
Here is my order:
-W651021-S, 45MM
-N802981-S, 38MM
-W651012-S, 18MM
-383181-S, .75"
I can confirm that there are 7 N802981-S plugs per side. The very first hole behind the front tire is just too big for the 38MM (easily moves around) but too small for the 45MM. I used 2 of the W651012-S plugs (trimming just a bit) for 2 holes buy the step bar mount (1 per side). I have not pulled the tape but there should be 2 383181-S plugs, 1 per side as well. I can't confirm until I get those. Near that hole there is also a square hole that I have not found the part to yet, that is covered by tape as well. I had to duct tape for now (as its mid winter) to try to keep the holes plugged until spring......or until I find longer dry time/no snow!!
1 nice thing, when I pulled the rear tape the sunroof drain hose was right there so I poked a hole in the plug and now I have it draining OUTSIDE the cab.