Thanks for the input everyone.
When I went to pick up my rig, I got an up close look at everything and nothing has really changed from previous years. The dealer finally admitted that because the Raptor was placed on the lowest perch for the DOT approval, they were hesitant to let a new sale "illegal" truck roll off the lot! I took this as a lack of specific experience with the truck, so I'll get the mod done by another shop instead.
On another note, I would like to thank the FRF admin and the powers that be with getting such a list of awesome vendors. Randy (the man!) was also super helpful when I was checking prices on the truck, and I already have gear from ADD (thanks Jason) and RPG (thanks Jarrett) on order!