I'm in the same boat as you, I want to tune but reliability is top priority so which tune.
So far after much research I've narrowed it down to JDM or the one from Gearhead which utilizes the transmission in their tune also but worked with the Cobb IC and CAI.
Our tunes work with the COBB intake and IC as well We have used their parts along with Whipple, AFE, and a few other brands, all work with our custom tuning!