That and the rotory gear selector were deal killers for me.
I see this over and over. Why do people hate the rotary gear selector so much? It's all electronic now so a "real shifter" just looks that way- it's sending the same 0s and 1s to the transmission computer that a rotary knob would, or push buttons, or touch screen or whatever. There's no linkage, no cables. I don't mind having a "real shifter" as a place to rest my hand, but otherwise, I'm fine with any type of alternative selector if it's reasonably functional.