I have the 2012 Raptor, took my spare wheel off to look at the lug seating area and it is tapered for the lug nut to center itself, Now you know those lug nuts and locks will work.
I noticed that the rim is painted exactly the same as the rest, I read in a post that they were all black with out the machined areas.
No weights on the spare, which makes me believe that the spares were never balanced and not ment to be rotated in with the other wheels.
I wonder if it has the TPMS?
Humvee21 should be able to answer all of your spare tire questions.
FYI - 2011 and back did not have the matching spares.