Ok, so from what I understand I can lower the front maximum an inch with the LCA (I'd try and get ford or another shop to do it, not equipped to do it myself) however that only yields about 19mm, since I'm sitting at 190ish and the max the system will allow is 163mm that still leave another 10ish mm or about half an inch. My OCD really wants the truck to be level across the front so I definitely do that but I still need to get the sensors in a better spot.
I was able to back my truck up an incline and trick the system into accepting the VDM ride height recalibration. Of course when I leveled the truck back out it shows the front sitting about 30mm high on one side and 14ish mm high on the other (both in the front). Winfield (GooseTuned) got back to me and unfortunately there is nothing he can do, his software does not deal with the chassis. So I guess I have to figure out some way to fabricate a way to move the sensors to where the VDM accepts the ride height on level grounds. Thanks for all the help so far, I'll get a measurement for height sensors tonight.