Here are the pics I took when doing mine:
Invisicord:
From Invisicord's website:
Invisicord website:
Invisicord Products Home Page
If you look closely on your connector you will see numbers on the wire locations (you may need a magnifying glass for that).
These pictures are of my Raptor installation and I have the 10 pin harness (with SYNC).
Pin 1 on both mirrors is switched 12v. The wire color is Blue with red stripe. The power to this pin stays on like the radio does until you open the door or wait ten minutes.
Pin 10 on the 10 pin mirror is the ground and the color is also Black with a purple (violet) stripe
The Invisicord pins need to be forced in and they don't 'snap' or 'pop' into place. You just push them in about as far as they'll go and that's it.
I used the Great Lakes Mount to hold my Valentine One (V1) radar/laser detector (more on that another time) and you see it in the pics above and below.
Invisicords are available in different standard lengths ( 8", 12", 16", 20" or 24") and you can also have them custom made. I went with the shortest one - 8" and there is still extra length on my installation. The Invisicord wiorks with other radar detectors - visit their website for more info.
Let me know if you have any questions - feel free to PM me and I'll help you if I can.
Good luck!