@FordTechOne has repeatedly poo-poo’d this idea as ‘unwise’. I’ll try to recall from memory, but basically it can harm the BCM over time, possibly “bricking” it. That would suck.
The lighting system is much, much more complicated now than when many of us grew up around cars. it’s not just tying into a circuit, setting up a relay and hoping you have enough alternator to handle it.
Electrically, you would think it should work, pretty simply. You’re only tapping the high beam as a signal, which should be insignificant draw wise. FTO posted up a pretty detailed explanation on it in another thread and it boils down to - it’s not just about wire gauge and draw, it’s the BCM(? I think that was the module) oversight of the circuit.