Sorry I'm tuning in late, but really sorry about what is happening to you. Screw your dealer! I agree with sending a letter to the dealer and to Ford - you can always start with one that cc's your law firm instead of going nuclear as was previously advised.
A little more on my story - I went in for an oil Change on May 1st and except for a couple of weeks in between (including a breakdown 200 miles from home) I just received my Raptor back. While its going to take me some time to decide if I'll ever buy a Ford again, my dealer has been amazing. I've had at least 3 different loaners - 2 of which were delivered to my house (I live about 35 minutes away from the dealer). One of them wasn't even a rental, but the dealer's work truck. He's also replaced half of my truck, which is another story.
Given our service manager's ability to obtain full assemblies in lieu of parts, he might just have some blackmail on someone at Ford! Otherwise, I think the owner really cares about his reputation. The service manager pays a ton of attention to their survey results and he seems to have done everything possible to make things right (or he's lying his ass off to me, but I'm at least he's done a good job of convincing me enough to satisfy me!).
Good luck with the SOB you are dealing with.