Parking on the trailer is OK sometimes, but unless you have a tilting trailer, you have to get out or fold down and back up ramps, every time you use the Truck.
A good trailer rated to haul the Raptor will add 2,500 to 3,000 pounds to the towing weight, which is not a little amount.
Lastly, tow hooks? I go off road a lot and have never needed them, but maybe you just like the look of them.
However, get what you want, because then you will be happy. Don't get something because someone told you too, as you probably will regret it. I am only giving you my opinion based on my experience to help you make your decision. Either way, if you "make" the wrong decision, it will be easy to change.