Maybe this helps...or confuses the subject even more?
From the 2010 Ford Workshop Manual...Sorry I'm not paying for the latest version, but the engine and driveline service info should be the same:
- Friction Modifier: XL-3 (US); CXL-3 (Canada) EST-M2C118-A
- Motorcraft® SAE 75W-140 Synthetic Rear Axle Lubricant: XY-75W140-QL (US); CXY-75W140-1L (Canada) WSL-M2C192-A and GL-5
- Silicone Gasket and Sealant: TA-30 WSE-M4G323-A4
Removal (referring to the rear diff cover)
With the vehicle in NEUTRAL, position it on a hoist. For additional information, refer to Section 100-02 .
Remove the differential housing cover.
Remove the 12 differential housing cover bolts, and drain the lubricant from the axle housing.
Remove the differential housing cover.
Installation
NOTE: Remove all of the silicone gasket and make sure the surfaces are free of oil before applying the new silicone gasket.
Clean the gasket mating surface of the axle and the differential housing cover.
Apply a new, continuous bead of sealant to the differential housing cover as shown.
NOTE: The differential housing cover must be installed within 15 minutes of application of the silicone, or new sealant must be applied. If possible, allow one hour before filling with lubricant to make sure the silicone sealant has correctly cured.
Install the differential housing cover and the 12 differential housing cover bolts.
Tighten to 45 Nm (33 lb-ft).
Remove the fill plug.
[highlight]NOTE: For non SVT Traction-Lok® axles, first fill the axle with 118 ml (4 oz) of friction modifier. No friction modifier is used on SVT axles.[/highlight]
Fill the axle with the specified amount of axle lubricant and install the fill plug.
Tighten to 30 Nm (22 lb-ft).
Now, if someone with access to OASIS and/or the latest Workshop Manual can confirm this hasn't changed. Anyway, I'm going to be doing this service soon and I DO NOT plan to add friction modifier. If I hear any chatter or anything unexpected then I'll add some, but I don't anticipate needing to do so with a quality synthetic lube. I have a case of Amsoil ready to go into the front and rear diff in the appropriate viscosities.
Full disclosure...I am NOT a mechanic. I'm just sharing what I've found. Take it or leave it. I'm just an IT guy that holds a wrench occasionally.
My personal take is still that, unless your rear is special and has clutch plates in it like an LSD, then you don't need friction modifier.