A point about risk...while I am definitely on the risk averse side and am surely poorer for it, I am aware that risk isn't completely unavoidable. You can't fully avoid risk by paying cash for everything and never investing. You will lose due to inflation and depreciation. and all that lost opportunity.
Regarding the point of whether I would have paid cash if I could....no. First off, I technically could have. I would have been less liquid than I want to be, or would have had to sell some investments and take a tax hit. It would not have been smart to do that, but I could have. But lets say I had 50-60k laying around. I would not have, particularly during this period of high inflation.
The way I see it, when you know inflation is going to be around for awhile, you want to buy with todays dollars instead of tomorrows. Everything will cost more, but the assets stay the same value to me. And if there are assets you want now or in the near future, buy now. And the whole reason credit exists is to extend your ability to buy now, so why not use it? Don't over extend yourself, sure, but why limit to only what you have in cash.
I actually bought my daughter's car when she was still 14, because I knew I could get a good deal now before prices rise, knew it would be a good commuter car for me in the mean time, and save some wear on the vehicle. A probably didn't save much given insurance costs, but I am glad I'm not out looking for deals right now.
I do wish that I had looked at getting other assets before on this hit. I have been thinking about land to retire on, but never pulled the trigger. That's going to cost me. If had had the extra $50-$60k a year ago, I probably would bought land, maybe some toys to play with, and use that cash to slowly pay off the loans. Even if I didn't bother to invest the cash, dead money reserve to play off loans beats today's inflation.