Mine is a 2020 and the relay box, for the upfitters I assume is right next to the underhood fuse box...right where the upfitter wires are. I actually took the lid off it thinking it and the fuse box were one big lid but no, they are separate but the releases are like 3" apart.
Gopher, my apologies, I think you answered this, if you use volt meter to the upfitter wire and ground with switch on / ignition on or running you get 0 volts correct?
If the above is true,
@FordTechOne would he go into the relay box and ensure he is getting power? If before and after relay is 12V then something else but if only feed side is 12V and output side is 0 that would mean the relay blown correct?
Silly me, I thought the upfitters were on with the truck on or off! I was like WTH I am getting 0 volts maybe I have same issue but turned accessory on and walla...POWER!