“Not letting dealer ‘fix it’ however”…sounds like there’s something else going on with that particular dealer. Plan on fixing it yourself?
Just don’t want both doors resprayed. Even if I vetted out the perfect body shop, I’d likely keep the scratches for a while. I typically notice more issues introduced after panels are redone.
Years ago had a local “legend” do a panel and you could still notice the difference in clear coat finish.
Not worth it for a truck I’m going to beat up.