It's been covered on here plenty but California is the absolute worst state to buy a Raptor in. I lived in Oceanside and grew up in Temecula so I feel the pain. Was once up north in Dixon and had a dealer try to cut me an 'awesome' deal at 5k over MSRP if I bought that day.... I laughed and walked away.
It'd definitely be worth the time and effort to look a state or two away and do the drive/flight and drive home or look for a dealer that'd be willing to ship it to you. Good luck though!
For reference my sticker was 74k and my invoice was 68k.
Whaaaa! Crazy posting useful buying advice as a seasoned raptor buyer?! Now I've seen everything