The dealership has told me that the play in the driveshaft is normal. I showed him a video of me grabbing the shaft and shaking it to make the same type of noise I hear going over small bumps. He said the service tech told him "If it didn't have that play in it then things would break." I countered with, while some play is surely normal, not to the extent that it makes noise over bumps. He didn't seem to agree.Front driveshaft slop is making the most sense to me. I don't think it's the shocks, this is a mystery.
I also had some transmission weirdness that included funky shifting and an abrupt thud/clunk when slowing down,. So while I was playing with FORscan to get rid of all the chimes, the double honk and change some lighting I cleared the transmission adaptive learning tables. It made a difference and it shifts better and more consistantly now.
However, playing with the transmission and still noticing a (non bump induced) thud/clunk in the low speed deceleration right before a stop I then tried putting it in neutral and coming to a stop the same way. Same clunk that felt like a hard downshift before. So would it make sense that if it is not the transmission, it could be an excessive play in the driveshaft issue? I can repeat the "feeling of a hard downshift" every time I slow down in neutral. Accelerate to 20mph and then slow down normally adding brake pressure as if I was coming to a stop and right at 10-8 mph it will feel like something under the truck gets hit with a sledge hammer, or maybe a slide hammer going forward.
Maybe not related. Still annoying.