You're very tolerant. Good for you. I think it looks like a guy who dressed in the dark while still drunk. Beauty rings don't match the vinyl or light covers, which don't match either. And if I think so, it's bad. My wife routinely gives me the old "You're not wearing THAT, are you?". She says that things that color match badly are worse than clashing colors. Dunno, but I guess her training is starting to pay off. I'd say lose two of the three and since the lights are the most expensive, I like your choice.
I like black with accent colors.
I just don't care for orange. (not happy about orange in the interior). Very true that the pieces don't match, and orange isn't as forgiving about that as other shades...I guess.
Amber on a vehicle, sort of doesn't count any more, since every vehicle has amber lights and it tends to just blend it and not be noticed at all. However, that's a lot of amber, and it doesn't match between OEM lights, lights on the roof, and the ditch light. And that bothers me, but if it's functional, that's at least something. (side note, I hate that BD amber lights don't match stock. Considering switching to Rigid for that reason alone, despite inferior lumens).
Mostly, I complain about the beauty rings as that's the only parts that potentially have to replaced or repainted at a cost. The rest is just removing stuff.