Dan... you're freaking me out dude. You're describing testing that I personally ran over the course of 5 years, 7 events, hundreds of dyno pulls, dozens of mods, dozens of cars, and dozens of 1/4 track runs. A "test" consisted of 3 dyno pulls, a mod swap, and three more pulls. The car wasn't removed from the dyno. The mod was made in place, as close in timing as was possible. We called these tests the "MFOs"... Modifications Face Off.
By far the most popular mod to test was a so called "CAI". If it is made for the platform, we tested it. And, without fail, we showed negligible gains. The overall conclusion always ended up as "Buy it for looks. Buy it for sound. Don't buy it for performance."
Hell, I even tried to get K&N to honor their "Performance Guarantee" (we didn't show any despite their "14hp increase!" gain claim). They blew us off, even after acknowledging our tests were well run, well controlled, repeatable and as scientific as possible for everyday guys like us. Its hard for me to recommend K&N because of that experience. But I digress.
We also tested exhausts, and did find some gains, although not enough to consider substantial (especially when comparing hp per dollar ratios). Things improved when a CAI was combined with an exhaust, but even then you start to run into issues of tuning. You're making available more air to the motor, which tends to lean things out until the computer adjusts by dumping more fuel... which of course means your MPG tended to suffer a bit.
As for the throttle body spacer... don't waste your money. They're total junk. The idea comes from carbureted applications, but I've never seen them do anything but introduce an annoying whistle you'll hear in the cab.
So to boil all that down...if I'm interested in better sound, I go with a CAI. If I want to push a little further, I consider exhausts BUT I work with my exhaust installer to try different setups. You WILL get resonance inside the cab with some, and not with others. You'll need to play with a few to find one that works for you. And then, if I really want to take advantage of the power increase potential I just introduced to my motor, I look into tuning options.
Hope that helps, and please keep us updated on what you decide!