It is a simple gesture, on our way to Texas Raptor Run we were going to have our headlights on through Oklahoma..
-Greg (aka squatting dog)
I don't know how the widow would take this, but maybe someone could set up along the road and get a good pic of the convoy or Raptors with their lights on. Then, everyone attending TRR could sign a blown up version of the pic with their condolences. Have it framed and it could go along with the donation as a community gesture. Just a random thought. I won't be at TRR and obviously this will require some logistics so just throwing this out there.
With regard to seatbelts, I have no criticism to offer. I'll only say that I always wear one and anyone in my vehicle will damn well wear one as well. I think that speaks to my opinion on the subject.